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Temper tantrums, aggression and emotional dysregulation
Also known as Toddler tantrums · Childhood aggression · Emotional dysregulation in children · Irritability and temper loss · Disruptive behaviour preschool
Fellowship guide to temper tantrums, aggression and emotional dysregulation: developmental norms versus impairing behaviour, ABC assessment, medical and safeguarding differentials, first-line behavioural parenting, no corporal punishment, specialist escalation and exam defence.
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- Aggression or self-injury causing injury, weapon access, or caregiver cannot keep the child safe today
- Acute medical red flags mistaken for behaviour: encephalopathy, seizure, severe pain, head injury
- Developmental regression, loss of language, or new neurological signs
- Suspected maltreatment, family violence, or severe neglect uncovered during a behaviour history
- Multi-setting destructive aggression with no interim safety plan while on a waitlist
- Prescribing or recommending corporal punishment as discipline
- Medication started for typical toddler tantrums without specialist pathway
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- General and Community Paediatrics
- Growth and development
- Behavioural and mental health
- Learning goal 10 developmental and behavioural paediatrics
- Learning goal 15 essential general paediatrics
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- Mental health and emotional wellbeing
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- General Pediatrics Content Outline — Domain 2: Growth and Development
- General Pediatrics Content Outline — Domain 11: Mental and Behavioral Health
- General Pediatrics EPA: Assess and manage common behavioral concerns
- Patient Care 1: History
- Patient Care 4: Clinical Reasoning
- Patient Care 5: Patient Management
- Interpersonal and Communication Skills 1: Patient- and Family-Centered Communication
- Systems-Based Practice 3: System Navigation for Patient Centered Care – Coordination of Care
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- Pediatrics: Foundations EPA — Assessing and managing common behavioural presentations
Overview & Definition
A parent says, “He has tantrums all day. He hits. I am exhausted.” The child looks fine in the waiting room. Your first task is not a diagnosis code. Your first task is to decide whether this is expected temper loss, impairing emotional dysregulation, or aggression that needs a safety plan today. [1] [4]
A temper tantrum is a time-limited outburst of frustration or anger. You may see crying, screaming, thrashing, dropping to the floor, or a short loss of behavioural control. In toddlers, this often appears when desire and autonomy outrun language and self-regulation. [4]
Emotional dysregulation means the child struggles to modulate how strong feelings get, how long they last, and how quickly they recover, relative to age and context. Aggression is behaviour intended to harm or threaten harm to people, animals or property. Reactive (“hot”) aggression is different from proactive (“instrumental”) aggression. [11] [12]
More than 10% of young children experience clinically significant mental health problems. The medical home is often the first reliable contact, so general paediatricians lead early recognition and parenting support rather than waiting for a specialist letter. [1]
Deep technique for functional analysis lives on the linked behavioural assessment page. ODD-focused programme detail lives on the defiance management page. This leaf owns the clinical spine for tantrums, aggression and dysregulation. [15]
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- [10]Bagner DM Telehealth Treatment of Behavior Problems in Young Children With Developmental Delay: A Randomized Clinical Trial. JAMA Pediatr, 2023.PMID 36622653
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